Treat her like you would treat any other church members.  Don't lay expectations on her to lead a group or be super involved in certain areas that you may think is "typical".  Please do NOT compare her to your previous Pastor's Wife.  She, just like YOU, is a work in progress.  She, just like you, is uniquely created by God to serve in ways she has been gifted, and according to her season of life.  Give her space to figure this out.  Once she figures it out, and she will, cheer her on like crazy, and encourage her, like you would want to be encouraged!  Absolutely no extra pressure.  

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